Later Days And better Lays

I have gone to a new site.....

Follow me my children to this new world.....

More????

Today in Tigger history

2,553 days ago, I left my apartment in Dallas and drove my car to a little bitty town in Mississippi.

Where did It go????

OK, I had a survey here and it disappeared......

It got eaten by blog world.

Honesty, Openness, Communication and Why they are Bad for a Marriage

Da Missus and I have decided for a little flair we are going to try an open marriage and I am not sure where this is going to take us. We have had 3-ways before. We have shared our bed with another couple. We have even leaned toward swinging. Both of us this weekend spend considerable time looking up info on local swinging clubs in our area.

But we have come to a conclusion that we are going to have a true physically "open marriage". That means if the mood strikes elsewhere and there is opportunity, GO FOR IT!!!!!!

The problem I am having with all of this is that I barely have time enough to properly romance my wife. I damn sure don't have time (or ability or length or girth) to physically satisfy her. And now she has been given the green light to find more. Yeah, I am a little nervous. What if he / she / they are better than I? What if she realizes that I am not any good?

Now, the fun part of all this is that we always have the option of joining in with the outsiders, turning it into more of3-way than a "permitted affair". With my voyeuristic tendencies, I would probably do as much watching as joining in if da Missus is occupied.

Another problem I have is where to draw the line? We have set up certain rules with this. I am just terrified that what I think of as flirting she may see as something more. I do not want to do anything to make her think that she is less than anything other than my soul mate, life partner and wife. While the enjoyment of someone / something new is exciting, I will not ever, Ever, EVER jeopardize what I have for a quick shag.

And the final, and to me, the BIGGEST problem I have with this is when and how am I supposed to peruse anything else???? There is nothing here at work I want to go for, not to mention I am one who believes in the old adage, "Don't pee in you own water bowl". Web access here has all kinds of restrictions on it so I can't look online. I can't afford the bar scene. Da Missus monopolizes the computer when we are both awake, so I can't try the chat room from home. She seems to have all the advantages, and I might be left holding the bag, so to speak. And she is bi-sexual, so her chances are automatically higher better than mine.

NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thoughts and Fantasies

Would it be wrong to want to take da Missus to a swingers club???

Would it be wrong to want an orgy to break out??

Would it be wrong to want to see her serviced in ways I cannot imagine?

Would it be wrong to just want to sit back and watch all of that????

Thousands and Thousands of Blogs in My head

....Or another Random thought post


Spent time chatting online in an online chat room. Same site where I met da Missus. Very funny. Makes me realize how lucky we were to be able to meet in a room like that, and still be going strong.

This last week da Missus and I "celebrated" the fact that it was 7 years ago that we met in R/L. What a crazy wild hedonistic weekend. Who would have thought????

Feeling espescially frisky today....

Still cannot beleive it has been 7 years.

Serious brain issues going on. Don't know what to do or who to talk to it about



Too much.....TOO MUCH

TOO MUCH

Welcome to MY life

Mother's Day 2006
On the way over to my parent's house, my car, fully loaded with da Missus, da Twinsies, and myself had a blowout. In the process of jacking the car up, the jack twisted and became useless. Luckily (???), someone stopped to help us out. In his vigor to help, he placed his jack in a bad spot and crushed part of my cooling system. Car needed to get towed. Off to the shop for repairs with money we did not have.

One Week later
Went to pick the car up. Tire was not replaced as promised. All other repairs seem ok.

Next Day
Bought a new tire. Still with money that we do not have.

Last night
Went home from work sick. (Still feel like crap). da Twinsies were VERY happy I was home before bedtime. We played. Well, they played and I lay on the couch. da Boy jumped from the arm of the couch and head butted me in a VERY personal spot. Finally recovered. da Girl decided I was not paying enough attention to her. She stuck a finger up my nose. That was bad, but then, she kissed my eye. Well, more accurately, she LICKED MY EYEBALL. I sure there are more gross feeling, but I cannot come up with one.

Today
Rear tire blew out. No clue why. Tire was a used tire, bought a few weeks back, but looked in good shape. Tire totally shredded. I am thinking it may have been a retread versus a true "used tire"


But you want to know the best part?

I am still in a damn good mood. I am healthy, I think. I have the world's greatest kids and an awsome wife.

It is all good.